I won't draw it out, it's the idolization of Single Mothers. The 'what sacrifice,' 'they work so hard,' 'I just don't know how they do it,' sort of comments with complete and utter awe in their voice. Now, before you get all defensive and spout off about this person or that person who deserves respect for their situation etc...let me clarify. Widowed single mothers DO NOT count, they are there because of no fault of their own. Also, I do not believe that single mothers deserve contempt based on their singleness. I just think that by putting them into a category of martyr we elevate the status and very possibly push more into the category. I understand that this is a simplistic view and single mothers (ones who have chosen this title and ones who made poor decisions on a spouse) do need help and caring, but awe and wonder I don't believe should be bestowed. Unfortunantly, the kids are the ones who suffer most.
Yes, I do have trouble swallowing the 'Prodigal Son' Parable. : )
Pet peeve rant, over...oh, an extra little rant on a similar topic.
In Salem they have at least one billboard that is for a big brother/little brother type program where Men mentor young boys without a male role model. No, I do not believe this is wrong, I think it is a great program because it's a near epidemic of single mothers without a male role model of any value. The issue I have is their push line, "Real Men Mentor." Okay, so because my husband is busy working and taking care of his family of four kids, a wife, and a house he's not a 'real man'? I know they're just trying to put a little self conscience guilt trip to push those who aren't taking care of families to consider helping the children, but it still rubs me wrong.
Okay, now I really done...as long as I don't start about Wal-Mart!
